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Many people have trouble with the definitions out there in the land of seduction and social tagging of the terms Alpha and Beta (Omega’s are omega’s we’ll touch on this at the end). Many of the criticisms say that the definitions aren’t complete, that true alpha’s can display beta traits, but by being alpha they aren’t beta traits, just things that Beta’s can’t get away with. Some definitions state that you are alpha in contrast to how hot the girls you are banging are. Sure i guess this is obvious, you are on a higher level if you are banging hotter babes, but lifestyle can count for this too, having drug dealing friends and a highrise pimping house, designer clothes and a bank roll that has higher than average limits will land countless hot babes – status whores and gold diggers mostly, but still hot as hell. Looks will also get you a certain amount of hotness, but not always. There are so many factors of what constitutes banging hot babes, it isn’t simply alpha. I’ve seen some of these guys be extremely beta, and still have hot babes around, they just don’t necessarily know how to handle them. There a so many variables that you must take into account your hitting percentage, or better yet the hottest type girls you can get, and go from there. Not every alpha can bang 10′s (theoretically anyways, it is quite possible, but again it comes down to tastes and other variables.). So what is Alpha and Beta behaviour? And can you be alpha but not have 10′s (which honestly, 10′s are either models, or prostitutes, not many roaming around freely waiting for a dude to pick them up in a bar)?

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In my experience there are three major types of guys out there, and i think this can be a good category in where to start adjusting your game accordingly, see where you fit in, what are your traits, and we can work from there.

Type 1) Romantics (majority of most men) These are the guys that, yes can have the ability to sleep with a few partners, can have some smooth skills with woman, can be charming, can be relatively cool, can be somewhat confident – this of course is the top dogs in this category that we’re talking about here – they can get pretty good looking girls, but there is something in them that says a girl has to be special. Their weakness gets them right in the kisser, he’s got to really connect with a girl, she’s got to have similar interests, and most importantly he needs to feel love, needs to believe in the fantasy of romantic love with a girl, he needs her to be faithful and only his, but he wants respect, more importantly, he just can’t be with a girl he doesn’t respect. He needs to be vulnerable around this type of girl, he wants to unload his emotional side to her and have her be his soul mate, he wants to lavish her with attention and be lost in a world with her. Sounds a lot like a chick right? It is. The fallacy of even the top dog of this type of men is that they still don’t want to accept that their girl, the one they chose, and gave his big heart to, still wants to fuck the next category of men, and probably will at some point in their relationship. Jealousy is at it’s highest levels with this type of guys. They want to exclude as many competing males out of their lives for fear or her wandering (even in this types hindbrain he knows she will stray, but he will never consciously acknowledge this fact). He will try to bombard her and make him his whole world. On the weakest of these men, they are simply feeling the exact same things, they are just not as charming, good looking, or have status, they have problems talking to girls, but their desires are the same.

Type 2) Players. Or guys who like to fuck girls, a lot of girls. This is the group most associated with alpha’s. They may have had a romantic past but shed it when the switch went off and they realized that women really don’t want that romantic guy at all, accept to use him for her needs at the time, and also realized womans true sexual nature – or they never had it in the first place. This guy at his height makes his whole world that involves women a priority to banging and attracted multiple girls. He is not immune to one-itis, but only gets it when surprised by a type of girl he has never encountered before, which can momentarily make her special. He does not think in a naive way that girls aren’t fucking as much as him or even more so – he knows that girls get hit on and give into their sexual impulses at whims, when she goes out she most likely will have many opportunities to fuck other guys just like him. He knows he’s not special to her, except that he can provide for her what she needs. He is aware of his role to her, and therefore does not need to be too vulnerable with her, he does not fall under the spell of telling her everything and sharing his soul with her. In a relationship he simply gives her enough to satiate her desires in this, but she is always kept at arms length. She is always trying to get in, he never let’s her in truly (probably the most successful relationships work with this guy). When the break up occurs he has most likely been seeing other girls or has begun to pursue them aware of the levels of attraction in his girl for him. He has no problem seeing and banging multiple women, as he assumes his girl is most likely doing the same. He is less jealous as he has options, or feels like he has options, she is not in a special little place in his heart. With this man, he sees women only as objects of his desire whatever it may be, and his more assertive in his demands and expectations of their behaviour, also quick to release them if they don’t measure up. Of course this is extremely attractive to girls, because they always know where they stand, as this type doesn’t pussy foot around telling a girl when she’s acting up. The downside of this type of guy, or the weaker of this type, the inability to connect with girls on any level, cannot bond with them and loneliness looms over dry spells, confidence can be broken with lack of getting new poon. The top dogs of this group can successfully connect with a girl, but not be fooled with the romantic guys naiveté on love.

Type 3) Yes there is a third type, we’ve all known them, guys that either seem asexual, or just incapable of talking to a girl or sparking any attraction in them. They either try way too hard to get girls to like them, or they don’t try at all. Omega’s, typically referred too. There is no top dog or bottom feeders of this group, they just don’t put in any or enough effort to meet or attract girls. They can have traits of both of the above types, but its all internal, they don’t project anything, as their desires are left to playing world of warcraft and giving up on the idea of girls. One will just come to them at some point right? Some of them have had girls in the past, but they can have delusions of what they can pull, their desired girlfriend is put into their heads by seeing cg girls in video games, they can’t fathom going out with a girl that’s on their level of standards. They can think they are better than both the romantic or player type, but the key thing that always comes back is their lack of desire to change, to learn to attract and to apply it. They simply just don’t want to put themselves out there like that, and they can’t decide how to do it. They are also the most socially inept men, unable to make a girl laugh or look at them with a cocky grin, or sly sex eyes. They don’t ever receive the ‘fuck me’ look as they exude no confidence and zero sexuality.

Those are the three types, 1 would be normally associated as 1 Beta, 2 Apha, and 3 Omega. But as i pointed out, Beta’s can be successful with women, the problem with the romantics is that they fail to see reality, they are wrapped up in their own delusion of love, and when that delusion inevitably shatters as it always does, they are crushed, usually they digress into Omega status because they just can’t put their hearts out there like that. Others who started as type 1, turn to the alpha traits, they simply will never be able to see any girl as that naive romantic notion, the best ones can see it for reality and just have his fun in reality while it lasts.

Where do you fit in? Knowing where you are gives you an advantage at changing your behaviour. Beta traits that people talk about are really just fixing your inner game to not be a romantic schmuck that thinks girls are something to be swooned over and swept away in rose pedals. The romantic is not living in reality, he is living in his fantasy, which is okay, as long as you understand that’s what you are doing, and Beta’s don’t. They honestly are shocked when they find out their girlfriends or wives were fucking an alpha and laughing behind their backs. So a small dose of reality needs to be shed. You don’t have to be just one of these types, an alpha can exude beta traits and still be alpha if he chooses, because an alpha will never be duped into believing he is special.

Alpha/Beta or Players/Romantics: A Breakdown

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